Blessing number four is our birthdates.
Hers:

Mine:

We've slowed down with our sewing a bit, but we're finally getting back on track. My daughter chose our birthdates as our next blessings. I think she meant the blessing to be the gift of life and this is how a nine year old girl expresses that. She didn't mention partys or presents, just being born.
It took me a little by surprise, I've had serious moments of contemplation on the subject. My pregnancies were very painful and the doctors didn't know what to do with me. I now know that it was my diseased kidneys that gave me such problems, but during the pregnancies, no one knew for sure. My daughter is my first born, and about a third of the way through the pregnancy, one of the many OB's we saw suggested terminating the pregnancy. There was nothing at all wrong with the baby, she thought that would be easier for me. I can't imagine my life without my darling daughter, and I surely never even considered terminating the pregnancy.
I also remember one day at a family gathering where the topic of conversation turned along the lines of - too bad your step-dad isn't your biological dad. I guess they were thinking it would be better if I had not been born with kidney disease. The only problem with that reasoning is that if my mother had only had children with my step-dad, I would never have been born. It took a special miracle to create my life, me as the individual that I am, and I am so happy and grateful to have my life. Even with the flaws. No one is perfect, everyone has suffering and differences in their own way. I am so blessed to have been born and now I can show my children that life is precious and worth keeping no matter what the circumstance, disease, birth defect, abnormality. I truly believe this. I would not deny the life of my child just because they might inherit my kidney disease. What would the world be like if all difficult/defective/abnormal pregnancies were terminated? I thank God that my mother chose to give birth to me and I thank God for my precious children each and every day. Thank you God for the gift of life.